What are you thinking right now? Did you know that your thoughts are sending signals into the Universe and am not talking about sending messages to the home planet of some alien life form? Your brain waves have an electrical signal and this signal determines your fate. Are you alarmed or intrigued? Well that should depend on your current thoughts, because according to the Law of Attraction, your thoughts have their own energy, which attracts a complimentary energy. Negative thought energy signals transmit and attract negative energy, in a similar way to a metal magnet attracts metal, while positive thought energy transmits and attracts positive energy. Or put simply, if you expect things to go wrong they will but if you expect everything to go your way it will, or it is much more likely.
Psychologically speaking this makes sense, if we don’t think we’ll get that promotion, the love we want, or remain healthy, then we are creating our own self-fulfilling prophecy, because we will stymie our own chances by acting as though these things are out of reach. If you think you have no chance of getting a promotion, you are unlikely to work harder to get it. If we think we can never fit into that size 8 dress, we will not try to control our eating with as much vigour and will probably reach for that custard doughnut when tired; if we think our partner doesn’t love us enough, we will withhold love and affection from them, act negatively toward them, start quarrels and eventually push them away. There now, we’re ‘happy,’ we’ve proved ourselves to be right, our partner hated us all along, we are fat and staying that way and the boss knows we’re only half hearted in our work, he’d never promote us surely, we’re just not promotion material in fact we’re really stupid! Well thinking that way is unhelpful because it harms us and the Law of Attraction shows us a better way if we don’t wish to remain fat, unloved and underpaid. It tells us that our conscious and unconscious desires, beliefs and even emotions all impact on our lives in subtle but far reaching ways and bring about real changes in our lives in palpable ways. The phrase ‘be careful what you wish for, it just might happen,’ pertains to the Law of Attraction, what we think will happen, happens, almost as though our fates are plotted out and written daily by our own thoughts, that our destinies are not written in the stars but in our brain waves. Our expectations are our fate and fortune.
So how can we become mistresses and masters of our own destinies via our own thoughts? This may not be easy at first, as we tend to think negatively or positively in general, according to our family culture. If our parents didn’t believe in themselves or always expected the worst, it’s likely we will too. These patterns stretch back for many generations, which is why high achieving tends to run in families. Thinking about a void in one’s life, the lack of what one wants or needs, perpetuates the cycle of lack and negativity. Now is not the time to groan and call our parents and blame them, that would be negative and continuing the cycle! But we can break that chain of negative thought if we want to, here’s how:
Think carefully about what you really want from life, what you need to be happy, it may surprise you, as it’s not always the obvious. Feel the longing you have for this desire well up in you.
Then when knowing what you desire with absolute certainty, ask the Universe (or God according to your faith) to bring it to you, in clear, brief and gracious language.
Trust that your desire will come about, both consciously and subconsciously.
Practise visualising yourself having attained your desire, for a few minutes daily. See yourself happily taking pleasure in your desire fulfilled, picture yourself enjoying it when it has come to you, summoning all the gratitude and all the happy emotions you’ll feel when it arrives.
Relax now, what you want is on its way to you, feel as though you have already received your desire and sincerely give thanks in thought or prayer for this. Be firm in your knowledge that your desire is winging it’s way to you and feel it, anticipate it, get excited as though your desire has already materialised and been delivered to you, care of the Universe.
Keep yourself open to receiving your desire and keep a weather eye out for it manifesting in your life, whether it is as a gift or an opportunity that arises that allows you to seize your chance and realise your desire.
The Bible says that he who asks for something from God but has no faith is like a boat tossed at sea, lost, but those that ask with faith shall receive, in the same way build your faith in the good things coming to you and they will come. The Universe is always trying to bring us what we want, if we think negatively, that’s what it hears as our order from the menu of life, but if we start thinking according to the Law of Attraction you will be surprised at what a delicious feast will be served to you, any time soon. Being positively attractive is no longer just for the gorgeous; we can all attract what we need and want to us. So I’ve one question for you, what are you going to ask for first?
